him and her. They meet, they look at you like. Take the spark. Born sudden attraction, a curiosity, a current of erotic energy that uses the body language.
But not everyone can speak this language with the same fluency. And not everybody can learn from the messages sent to them. The more people living brain of thought, courting through conversation. For them, this code is a mystery. Other people are more in contact with the body, its expressiveness, her energy: they can happen to win the hearts (and meaning) of a potential partner without even exchanging a word.
But it does not implement the sexual signals in the cold: is untrue. The solution is to know the most common signs and concederseli emerge spontaneously when they feel when they are relaxed and open, with the desire to play to the discovery of the other. So let us consider the sexual signals for him and her. Attitudes her
Many women instinctively sex emit signals, when they notice an attractive man. Some, however, use them with more ease. Are fundamental measure and rhythm: the exaggeration is not attractive. Better to switch to other signals of interest and slight shyness.
- Standing. She straightens her back, the arches slightly (by overhang seats), highlights the chest. Often one leg is slightly bent, the way that the pelvis is a little 'bars.
- From session. back straight, chest out. Some women love to cross your legs on one side and then the other (as in the famous scene from the film Basic Instinct ...). The plot however is not rigid and narrow, but soft. Often, a hand caressing the stockings. Sometimes she plays with her ankle, lifting a bit 'up the tip foot (in an unconscious way mimics the natural movement that is immediately before orgasm).
- 's smile. can be just mentioned and mysterious, or so, or open and joyful. Some women are flashing through his teeth the tip of the tongue (it's an art, feel better in the mirror if you have not experienced, to avoid the excesses). Other pass his lips, or just bite (with a sensual movement, very different from chewing due to nervousness). Other times, the lips protrude forward, as if to kiss.
- eyes. They are alive, shining. We fix our gaze to him and lingers in a split second (not di più, altrimenti ha un effetto troppo invasivo). Poi viene distolto, in seguito magari torna. Ognuna ha il suo stile: c’è chi lo fa con un filo di allegra sfrontatezza, chi con malizia, chi con timidezza.
- I capelli. Lei li tocca con sensualità, li accarezza, li sistema, li scuote (con moderazione). Attenzione però: attorcigliare una ciocca intorno a un dito, se fatto nervosamente, tradisce ansia più che erotismo.
- Il viso. Può comunicare interesse oppure, per strategia, una distrazione svagata. Niente espressioni crucciate o annoiate. Spesso la testa è inclinata da un lato: lo sguardo risulta più seduttivo.
- Le mani. allow the "autocontatti," which are suggestions as to potential partners, make him want to be stroked. The fingers gently touch her face, perched on the lips or in the area near the eyes, or rise to smoothed his hair, to offset a lock. Or caress the body, smooth. Gesturing smoothly, without jerks. Often caress an object: the fingers gently follow the contours of the bottle or glass on the table. Or dare to touch him, almost by accident (perhaps at the same time extending a hand to get a glass), or with a gesture of care (remove a Bruscolino invisible from the jacket).
- movement. is important. The posture of the body often varies, naturally. You can reach out to him, reducing the distance to create intimacy, then maybe back again a bit ', to create a very attractive alternative effect.
- Walk. is an art. The basin waves. A movement that should never be forced or too exaggerated, on pain of vulgarity. But if implemented with grace, has an irresistible effect.
Attitudes him
male's repertoire is more measured than the female, have fewer bells and whistles, you play for the presence of magnetism, the intensity of expressions and gestures. Think of the tango: the good dancer no tricks, moves with confidence, to allow her to focus on virtuosity.
- Standing. Straighten your back, shoulders open, shows the chest. The stance is solid, well-planted on the ground, there are no curls. Sometimes he leans (ie to his motion to the machine, the counter of a bar) and from there, motionless, with eyes and sends signals at the same time gives her eyes.
- seated. The back is straight, shoulders open, his arms resting on the desk or armrests. The legs are extended in a natural or an ankle is resting on the knee of the other leg.
- The look. Each has its own style. Many close your eyes and use a look a bit 'as a predator. Sometimes the eyes are longer and more penetrating than her (he is the role of the hunter) but do not overdo it, not to be intrusive. Others prefer an open view, easy-going, happy as a child.
- hands. are often highlighted, not hidden nervously. Gestures were quiet, soft, measured. Sometimes adjusted his tie (be careful not to betray nervousness). Often, a hand resting on his belt, he does not know, but is drawing attention to the area of \u200b\u200bthe basin. When the dialogue began, his hands accidentally touch woman on the arm or shoulder. Later he can dare something more: the contact is intentional, takes her hand, shaking slightly forearm touches her shoulder.
- movement. Essential that is secure, resilient. He tries to approach reduces the distance, stretches out to her, even to whisper in his ear. Sometimes it can touch it as if by accident ...
- muscles. If tonics, he exposes them as soon as the opportunity allows. Maybe with the movement: on the beach, play volleyball with friends or will perform in diving and swimming. At dusk, even if it's a bit 'cold maybe he put your pants, and will remain a bit 'bare-chested to be admired ...
Learn how you can
Body language is difficult to implement in the cold. The rules are few: dissolve physical tensions, perhaps with a bioenergetic work, or yoga or even playing with the body, or dancing ... Second, calm the mind, not being afraid or insecure, cultivating thoughts balanced, optimistic and happy . Third, learn to breathe deeply. If the body becomes more alive, happy, safe, responsive and you will discover to make certain gestures with perfect measurement, without even thinking about it. And by a happy and expressive comes the irresistible sex appeal ...
Emma Chiaia {-} www.psychologies.it
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